new hOMe

i have been asked many times 'how's married life?"

it's been fine. we have been told that the first week, some couples have problem adjusting..we did'nt. either it was the honeymoon break or the fact that we had done a lot of adjustments on living arrangements before hand..like i know all his super bad habits and he knows mine too...

also have been asked 'how's living with the in laws?" so far it has been fine too..coz they had only got back from their holidays. heh.

i am thinking however i must be experiencing some marital bliss now..coz i seem to be able to tolerate the state of mess that his room right now. our furniture hunting came to a brief pause prior to the wedding becoz of our busy schedule..so right now..it am not embarassed to say, i am living out of a suitcase. literally. i have mentioned that before.

but i am fine with it. i am an adaptable creature. i found out i dont have much attachment to places. i am very mobile. i dont feel sad about moving.

one thing i do know though..this tolerance may not last very long, so last weekend we did go furniture hunting..and the years we have been together must have helped fine tune our taste and spending habits . we went to a few stores and a few warehouses over the two days, and at the end of the second day we went back to OM to put the money down to our bedroom set. we decided just over a day. i am proud of our fast decision making process. but then again, we have already gone through a similar process of furniture hunting for my parent's place. so it was chop chop fast.

about the moving thing tho..i have to admit, the first night at his place i couldnt have proper sleep. kept waking up and dreamt that we were house hunting. yup.

and have to say..i am not so used to staying in the big house..coz i still dont dare to be alone especially in our bedroom at night..and somehow always half-expect something to pop up. so let me rephrase what i said earlier, i am fine with moving out and leaving everytime..but can be abit neurotic about new places. crazy. heh.